I think bottom line.....if you feel the need to 'out' something that is none of your business to tell, then at least be big enough to say...
hey 'bob', did you know that 'sue' is running around saying this about you...
still this ends up being a game for everyone of who said what about who
i think that if britts bf is talking about her pancreas and her bf is on here, that that should have been an issue taken to britt privately to let her know her bf was talking about her....that should not have been an issue brought to the board that not only hurts britt but also hurts her bf
the issue with court and laura....if laura screwed court...why in the world would you put that on a public forum and potentially cause her to lose customers..there was no need for that to be said...
julie you are honest and open and tell it how it is, but this has started more crap that is gonna keep on going. and you have hurt more people, made them look like fools, when it wasnt necessary, if you are tired of hearing this hearsay, then maybe you should evaluate your friends that keep pulling you into the drama and telling you the bs...
There were only two points of Julie's post that were even accusatory. Everything else was, "this is what's being said when you're not around. Now you know, so you can refute it, let it drop, or turn to your friends and ask them how I could possibly know," etc, etc.
Now you know that someone told Julie that you said something gross about Courtney, and you were able to refute it.
Even if she had privately spoken to most of these girls, they would've repeated it or showed it to someone else at some point, and by the time it got back around to Julie - which it would - it would be something totally different. That was the whole point of the post - that all the whispering and the private talks that aren't really private are silly, and just as destructive as coming forward.
"Brittany, your best friend is telling people there are problems in your marriage," for instance, would turn into, "Julie told all of CPU that Brittany's getting a divorce."
funny how some people think they are martyrs. and have a right to decide who is right, who is wrong, who is friends, who isnt. why cant you people take gossip if it must fall in your lap, and forget it? its called being TRUSTWORTHY. i know SO much about EVERYONE on here....i dont spew it. it doesnt keep me up at night. i certainly dont post threads about it. wtf is wrong with some of you?
I think at some point Jewel was adding names to fluff her post. :) Because if you guys are all sitting around gossiping about boobies and someone being a meanie face online. Said shit talkers are NOT cool ( and i don't mean kosher I mean *wear my sunglasses at night* type of cool.
ANDDD I dont know most of you from the crazies in walmart in a social light. All my opinions have been formed from what I've seen what they themselves have posted on here, and the others calling people out on here. Any one can fake a smile and personality at an hour potluck.
I think that attitude is the whole issue. "I know SO MUCH," etc. Everyone on here? That's an awful lot of people to've seen anything worth knowing with your own two eyes. I think everyone THINKS they've got the dirt, and some keep it quiet, and some don't. Some keep it quiet at large, but tell their closer friends - because, surely, those friends would never repeat it to their own closer friends!
A little nugget here and a little nugget there gets passed around, into the most capable, trustworthy hands, and yet somehow winds up in the lap of a stranger, no longer a little nugget, but a big, juicy bite.
I think the post would have been cooler with the gossip and who has been spreading it, but then again Jewel probably could have written down 50+ names and everyone would have said, "well I heard it from" and by the end we still wouldn't know who started anything.
Brittany, I don't care if you believe me. I've always like you. I think you are very sweet and that it why I told you what was being said.
Well I told you who I thought it was last night and I deleted that person since she is talking crap and won't own up to it. It's soo childish. I have never once tried to hide anything about my marriage or my health problems so it's no biggie, I could care less who knows. It wouldn't matter if I did anyways because apparently everyone already knows everything as it is. as I told you last night, I'm not mad at what was supposedly said, I'm mad that everyone knew and neglected to tell me. THOSE people aren't people I want to be friends with.
or Losers, because we all apparrently don't have lives if all these rumors are not true at all.
Back home almost every rumor was true, it made it fun. Because you could just beat someones @ss, and then by the end they would apologize, and then you could go to dinner a week later. I miss being young, hah.
I never said it was true, I said it was what was being said and people need to focus on what they are saying to their friends or doing in front of their friends.
Where you might not being saying "Oh it's true.. it's true!" You are telling someone who they should and shouldnt friends with..."Brittany, Really?" ... "you are too good of a person for this" I think that goes a little beyond a friendly heads up.
What were you hoping to accomplish, though? Pin her up against me for a few hours and then she is going to roll over say "Oh Ok. I'll go delete her now! Thanks for the heads up!" Like a good little doggie?
News Flash. Brittany has her own brain, and for whatever reason some people act like that is not the case. As her best friend, I can tell you 100% that Brittany thinks for herself. She may take other peoples thoughts/opinions/advice into consideration, but she doesnt let people tell her what to do/say/think/feel.
If I were Pete, and she were Repeat, sitting on a bridge, and I jumped off. She would laugh at me, then maybe ask if I was okay.