MN, I think you should leave this open and let the drama come unleashed. After you yelled at everyone and told us to grow up there was nothing!! Like you popped a puppy dog with a news paper and he hid under the end table the rest of the day!
I don't think anything you did was slander worthy.. while I didn't agree with your post at first.. I understand that you wanted to avoid hear say of people spreading around that you are PMing them and it leaves no room for miscommunication on your part if you just put it all out there. It wouldn't be my choice method but I understand yours.
What is anyone elses marriage any business to anyone else? What does to matter to you that sally jo is cheating on her deployed husband jim bob? What are you getting from telling evere anyone if you have no proof and are feeding into here say? Does no one have their own family and marriages to worry about other than everyone elses? I have become very wise throught my many,many,many years of Marine Corps life and have learned that when one talks about anothers life,marriage,children and etc.. that person talking is either envious that they do not live the life of the person that they are talking about or are extremley unhappy in their own lives that messing with someone elses live that has what they want sounds like the right thing to do. It is all rediculious and childish and is what gives most Military Wives a bad name. What ever happened to the "Silent Ranks" joining together and living as one? As I can clearly see those days are well over and gone. It is a real shame.
The Marine Corps and "MILITARY FAMILY" is not what it used to be. It is well past NEEDING men to join and serving families. Be sure of that.
They don't care about family. They aren't the only ones. No job gives a sht about what your family wants or thinks.
Believe what you want but not many jobs are family orientated.
I get it.. I don't have very many "friend friends" either.. Sometimes I blame it on my being shy and other times I blame it on me being a "blunt btch" (because when you get past my shy exterior I am very honest and blunt) and then sometimes I think I am just being cautious.