I hope you aren't even going to consider letting him move into your home...
Tell him to check the Employment Security Commission website as well as the want ads online for the Sun Journal. He can also apply to the local temp agencies - both Holden and TESI. Both handle permanent position hiring for several local companies. (don't let the word temp fool you - they do the vetting for companies who don't want to deal with the hiring process.)
As far as being a positive influence and role model for them, that's a little too late. One daughter is already married, another is getting ready to graduate HS and your third is no longer a baby.
I know LMK.... I know.... I still hope and pray that he will have an epiphany. But....
Until then, looking out for me and mine is best. I will not allow him to live in my garage. I would allow him to stay here for a couple days until he found some place to live and my parents would allow him to stay with them longer than that because he is the father of their grandchildren.
Just gotta get him a job. Ultimately I think he will find a place up there where he is and keep the job he has.
Prayers that things work out and I don't lose the child support while I am being furloughed..... Sigh...
Thanks for the tips on Tesi and Holden. Knew about Tesi but not Holden.
I am going to dig and see if I have any of his old resumes in the papers in my garage.
Thanks Jersey.... I have not heard one word from him since his phone call. Don't know what he is doing, where he is living, if he is working or even if he is breathing. Never got his work experience in the mail to do his resume.
Guess he figured out all his stuff on his own. Or just fell off the earth.
Praying that he does the right thing and if I can help him do the right thing then so be it.
I would love for him to get an overseas contracting job.