So my neighbors husband is deployed.
Ol girl sticks it out for about two months and then...a mysterious truck starts showing up every once and a while. No big deal, one of his friends may be checking in on her and the kid. Then the truck is there daily....nightly...every morning. Every weekend and holidays. Hell, they all pile into her husbands truck and head out for the weekend and his stays parked there. Now ol boy is a Marine as well(for shame for shame). This dude is practically living there, he's acting like a father to the kid who is like 2 or 3. What would you do? Anything? I may or may not have taken photos of said persons entering and exiting the home. I plan on giving them to the husband when he returns. That way when she tries to take him to court for alimony and whatever else she tries to squeeze out of him there's proof of her actions. I know one thing is for certain, if my husband every found out that I was running around, letting someone act like a father to his child, and allowing them to drive his vehicle. He'd be on a bounty hunt for someones head. 

YIKES! 

Why you telling us, tell her how she's being a whore. 

Déjà vu 

Ya know, I made assumptions like this about my neighbor in Lejeune... Turns out, it was her brother who happened to be stationed in Lejeune as well. Sometimes things aren't what they seem. 

^ This too. Stop being a coward and talk to her then you'll know for sure. 

I had a friend marine (guy) stay with me for about 3 months when my husband first deployed. He playe with my child, took out garbage and mowed, etc etc 

Perhaps you should mind your own business? You know that if the situation was reversed, woman deployed and man had a woman coming over and a male neighbor saw this, do you think male neighbor would be on the underground asking people what he "should do" about it? LOL. Why do women have to be so dumb sometimes?

It's none of your business. Maybe they have an open marriage. Maybe it's a friend or a relative of the husband who needs a place to stay. Maybe it's a relative of the wife who happens to be a marine as well. Maybe you're delusional and you're imagining things. Maybe it's Jesus.

It really doesn't matter. It's none of your business and you should not concern yourself with the personal affairs of other people. 

Yup! If it were my best friend id say something, but im sure since it wa my best friend i would know. It doesnt concern you. 

You made an id for that?! 

does this remind anyone of bacon? 

That's what I was thinking! 

I like bacon. 

Yeah. I made an id because I didn't have one and I'm new here. I don't like bacon. It's overrated. 

Now Im hungry! Bacon and cake and strawberries. 

Who in their right mind excpet veggietarians dont like bacon!? 

Oh boyy haha 

You don't like bacon!?!?!? 

Ya know, I made assumptions like this about my neighbor in Lejeune... Turns out, it was her brother who happened to be stationed in Lejeune as well. Sometimes things aren't what they seem.

LOL if its someone she's related to she's got some serious issues. I sure as heck don't hang onto and kiss on my brothers the way she does this guy 

This too. Stop being a coward and talk to her then you'll know for sure.

I've tried talking to her multiple times since they moved in a year ago. She's rude and has no interest in speaking to me whatsoever. She's been asked if she wanted to come outside with her child when everyone else on the block was outside playing with their kids who are all about the same age. Efforts were made to make this woman feel accepted. She looks down her nose at everyone on the street. No my problem if she wants to be antisocial. 

I would say if you are not friends with either of them, don't worry about it.

Don't volunteer information or pictures to the deployed spouse. Don't involve the commands. If they are not harming you, or causing any disturbances, ignore it.

If the husband comes home and asks you, answer honestly but don't seek him out.

If she is cheating, the relationship will fall apart without your help. With your help, you could be blamed and it could cause issues with your family. 

Can I intrude here and say how much I dont miss that place? God that place was horrible. And the type of inbreed idiots that move there bc of the military. What drama! And AMCC was the worst!

I get way more bang for my buck here than there.
For roughly $1150 a month I get near 2 acres of land. Two bath three bed. Free satelitle internet! No billions of sandspurs in my yard. A home built after i was born. 06' to be exact. I have a plethera of animals to watch. I buy fresh eggs from my neighbor up the road. I have a creek next to my home to ply in. Farmer across the bend said i could take as muh corn as i want for my family. Fruits and veggies fall off of farming trucks. Tomatoes, watermelons, corn, strawberries, etc. free fresh food! My pets run all over the place without being on a leash. Friendly neighbors who LOVE and invite help. Two gas stations less than 2 miles away with fresh produce and lunches as well.

My daughter has fun swinging on vines of large trees. Playing with the salamanders.

I have "free" maintenance too. Never had a problem getting anything fixed. AMCC is a load of crap. And I pay less here than the BAH there and cost of livin is higher here. Go figure.

Not to mention the drama of neighbors or stuck up people living on my street. No one comes knockimg on my door for stupid chit while im trying to take a nap.

That place is a nightmare. Same roads to travel. Same bland businesses. Same dirty "havelocks finest" servin me dinner or driving like idiots. I hate that place. Too bad im going to come visit the end of next month. My friends need to move here! 

Girl, mind your own business. Get your own life. Quit worrrying about theirs. And like john boy and billy in the morning says, "quit ruinin my life!" 

Lets get back to bacon. I like it shrimp wrapped bacon 

Meat loaf wrapped with bacon
Steak wrapped in bacon
BLTs
Bacon and eggs
Bacon burgers
Bacon cheese dip 

LOL if its someone she's related to she's got some serious issues. I sure as heck don't hang onto and kiss on my brothers the way she does this guy

So here would be my question... if you have seen that going on and you "may or may not" have taken pictures of him going in and out of their house, why wouldn't you "may or may not" have taken pictures of the ACTUAL KISSING? Probably because it hasn't really happened or you would have mentioned it in the OP but the thread didn't go all "get that hoe" so you have to throw "new" information to further make your case. 

Bacon milkshakes at Denny's are awesome. 

My youngest likes the peanutbutter bacon shake at Sonic.... 

Hahahaha, it is far to easy to ruffle the feathers on you hens :-)
This story was completely fictional. Made up to show my husband why I don't befriend more wives ;-)
Have a nice day I'm headed back to reality now. 

Guess I missed the ruffled feathers.....

I think good advice was given..... There was no drama in the responses. Some emotion at best....

Maybe I am confused? Or.....

Are YOU the spouse of the deployed Marine who is being anti-social with someone living in your house without permission and in an illicit imagined affair?

LOLOLOLOL