Ok so here's my problem I recently found out that I am pregnant my boyfriend wants to have an abortion but I do not he has told me that if I don't go through with it once I have it he will take the child from me and kick me out of his house he said that he would be able to take the child because I don't have my own vehicle it is in his name and I have no place to go. I don't know what to do and need some advice can anyone help please?
Get rid of the boyfriend first. That's a definite must do!
You state that you do not have your own place or your own vehicle. With that said, I do not think you are ready to have your own child. How do you suppose you will take care of a child with no money, no vehicle, and no residence? GET AN ABORTION FAST. AND GET ON BIRTH CONTROL. Then prioritize your life and don't make the same mistake again.
If she has no money, no vehicle, no residence and still does not want to have an abortion then maybe an abortion is not something she chooses to do to her body and maybe she doesn't believe in them. Despite what anyone wants to judge her for, that is her right to choose.
Other than that.. If you plan to keep or abort the baby, you do it for YOU.. not for a man and lose him no matter what you decide. Do you want to risk going through life having to do everything he wants you to do and not have any say in anything? He sounds abusive and controlling. He doesn't want the baby but doesn't want you to have it either so he rather take the baby than let you raise it? He just wants out of child support and would probably be one of those people that has his parents raise the child.
Anyways.. There is help out there for you and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it and just make sure you take better care in the future not to have an accidental pregnancy. There is also adoption as an option too that might be a better fit for your situation if that is what you choose.
If this is for real, ditch the loser you are having a kid with and do what makes YOU happy. I am absolutely not an advocate of abortion and I feel that it's something you may always regret if it was a decision you didn't reach on your own.
I have a vehicle just have to get it fixed. I have a job so I have money. I don't belive in abortions and I was on birth control when this happened. I have decided not to go through with an abortion and I want to keep the baby. :) thank you guys for all the advice.