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a3568918uu --- 4 years ago -

Ok so here's my problem I recently found out that I am pregnant my boyfriend wants to have an abortion but I do not he has told me that if I don't go through with it once I have it he will take the child from me and kick me out of his house he said that he would be able to take the child because I don't have my own vehicle it is in his name and I have no place to go. I don't know what to do and need some advice can anyone help please? 

Ja Ja Jacky (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

Get rid of your boyfriend. 

Vicky (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

I second Jacky's comment. You can't take a baby from its mother because she doesn't have a car. AND.... There are lots of places you can go.

Your mom's
Your friend's
A women's shelter
A homeless shelter
A pregnancy resource center (in havelock)
A church


A boyfriend that doesn't want the pregnancy but wants to take the baby?

Get rid of the boyfriend. 

Shannon --- 4 years ago -

Wow. Yeah, he sounds like a jerk. Lose the boyfriend. 

Boobsy McNicehiney --- 4 years ago -

That's really sad. I'm sorry. If this is for real, I'd say don't take his feelings into consideration at all because he obviously doesn't care about yours. I agree with everyone else, leave him. 

BOOM BOOM BOOM --- 4 years ago -

Get an abortion. 

Jungle Julia --- 4 years ago -

Get rid of the boyfriend first. That's a definite must do!

You state that you do not have your own place or your own vehicle. With that said, I do not think you are ready to have your own child. How do you suppose you will take care of a child with no money, no vehicle, and no residence? GET AN ABORTION FAST. AND GET ON BIRTH CONTROL. Then prioritize your life and don't make the same mistake again. 

RMof2 (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

If she has no money, no vehicle, no residence and still does not want to have an abortion then maybe an abortion is not something she chooses to do to her body and maybe she doesn't believe in them. Despite what anyone wants to judge her for, that is her right to choose.

Other than that.. If you plan to keep or abort the baby, you do it for YOU.. not for a man and lose him no matter what you decide. Do you want to risk going through life having to do everything he wants you to do and not have any say in anything? He sounds abusive and controlling. He doesn't want the baby but doesn't want you to have it either so he rather take the baby than let you raise it? He just wants out of child support and would probably be one of those people that has his parents raise the child.

Anyways.. There is help out there for you and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it and just make sure you take better care in the future not to have an accidental pregnancy. There is also adoption as an option too that might be a better fit for your situation if that is what you choose.

Best of luck. 

Ja Ja Jacky (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

Obviously Jungle Julia is a reg trolling... 

Allen --- 4 years ago -

Give the baby to a rich family then use contraception 

RMof2 (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

Can I be given away to a rich family?! 

EL EM --- 4 years ago -

If he wants to have an abortion, let him. He can do what he wants with his body. ;) He sounds like a winner. Perfect specimen for an experimental medical procedure. 

MusicNote (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

Red, why you gotta write effin NOVELS.

If this is for real, ditch the loser you are having a kid with and do what makes YOU happy. I am absolutely not an advocate of abortion and I feel that it's something you may always regret if it was a decision you didn't reach on your own. 

BOOM BOOM BOOM --- 4 years ago -

You can give your kid to MN. 

a3568918uu --- 4 years ago -

I have a vehicle just have to get it fixed. I have a job so I have money. I don't belive in abortions and I was on birth control when this happened. I have decided not to go through with an abortion and I want to keep the baby. :) thank you guys for all the advice. 

Vicky (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

there is a pregnancy resource center in Havelock too.

252-444-4772 

BOOM BOOM BOOM --- 4 years ago -

Yo did the Kabutos open back up? 

MusicNote (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

Yeah, you can give your kid to me. I collect them. And I don't use them for nefarious purpose, either. 

Little Miss Knowitall --- 4 years ago -

Yo did the Kabutos open back up?

Yes, it's called Minoda's (?sp) 

Jungle Julia --- 4 years ago -

Obviously Jungle Julia is a reg trolling... 



I gave honest advice. Why do you think I'm trolling? 

Ja Ja Jacky (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

You only come on here to act like a beach. 

MusicNote (Mod) --- 4 years ago -

WTF? Who are you to tell someone to have an abortion?! Not having a car is not a reason to make a decision that could impact the entire course of your life. 

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